Monday, April 5, 2021
Welcome back to my daily blogs everyone. I am sincerely grateful to see that you have come back to read more about these spiritual life lessons. Everyday, I upload a blog that is about a dream or life experience. Today will be a dream blog.
Many of you might have been caught off guard by the title of this blog. After all, there are many people who do want to get married, and some who prefer to stay single. I'm the person who prefers to stay single. As Solomon states, "Give me apples, for I am sick of love." I haven't made my decision based on this quote, although, it would be hilarious if it were so.
My decision to remain unmarried and dedicated to the Lord is because of a dream I received. Anything that the Lord says to me, I must listen, and never disobey. The moment I disobey is the moment I am ruined. I received a dream a few years ago, and it was short.
This is the dream I received:
I saw myself standing in a beautiful white home and I asked the Lord Jesus Christ, 'Lord, when will I get married? How old will I be? How many children will I have?' Jesus answered, "My child, you will not get married. A time is coming far worse than what it is now. If you do get married, your wife would wait a little while until you have placed your trust in her. Then, after your first child is born, she will take everything away from you. But, listen to me. I want to bless you, and for that reason I have given you this order. Everyday, you will show your commitment to me." I replied, 'My Lord, I love you and I always will. I will remain committed to you for the rest of my life.' Jesus answered, "I love you also."
This was the end of the dream. Now, I didn't write this dream to install fear of marriage in you. There are many wonderful couples, but then there are also disastrous couples.
I have a good friend of my father who sat down with me a little while after this dream. He said to me, "Roberto. Even if you take the holiest woman who lives on the mountain, when you bring her into the city, she'll forget who she was and she'll become one of them." I never forgot those words.
It's true. How many times have we witnessed a negative change in someones life. We see commitment, but it is broken as if it never mattered. A commitment is no longer a commitment today. I can confidently say that during the olden day times, when traditional marriage was strong, plenty of couples were able to find the love of their life. However, today is a different topic. We no longer think about love. We begin to think about wealth and power. Why? I don't know. We must be seeking heavenly and not earthly things. Yet, we fail to understand this message. We know what the message means, but we are not willing to accept it. Why? Because it's not what most of us want. However, things should be this way. What God wants, I want.
I have not constructed this blog so that no one gets married. But I will say this: be cautious...please, be very cautious.
For instance, I know of a young couple who got married. They were very in love and everyone believed that they were the perfect couple for each other. After having a baby, the wife wanted a divorce because her ex wanted her back. She filed for full custody of the baby unless the husband agreed to buy her a home, car, and would pay all expenses. This man, is a very respectful, loving and charismatic individual. The wife threatened lying to the courts to keep her child if he didn't oblige. Most of us say that the law in this country is for the woman, and most of them take advantage of that. The husband obliged and placed himself in debt just to have some custody of his child.
Why are children being placed in the middle of these cases? Why are woman bringing children into the world to use them for their own selfish gains? I don't know why things have become like this. However, I do wish that things get better. Let us pray that this world become a better place. Let us pray that a great change will be made through the power of the Holy Spirit."
I am excited to share my spiritual life lessons with all of you. I thank you sincerely for joining me on this journey. I will be sharing every spiritual lesson I've learned in my life, every story of my father's life, every spiritual dream I had that came true, absolutely everything!
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God bless you all always,
Roberto W Rafo.